There is a mixed group of seven of us going to the Rila on the 15th Jan 05. Currently its mostly couples all around the age of 26, however I split up with my g-friend in Sept and now have a space ticket....... Which option should I take:
1) Offer to take the ex as she was originally really looking forward to it a we have remained friends.
2) Offer to take another female friend, emphasis on the friend to make the numbers up and not ...
Hi everyone, I need some agony aunt advice......
There is a mixed group of seven of us going to the Rila on the 15th Jan 05. Currently its mostly couples all around the age of 26, however I split up with my g-friend in Sept and now have a space ticket....... Which option should I take:
1) Offer to take the ex as she was originally really looking forward to it a we have remained friends.
2) Offer to take another female friend, emphasis on the friend to make the numbers up and not to feel so out of it.
3) Go on my own and hope to meet fun minded ladies (not ladies of the night thou) in all the bars/clubs and be free and single .
Please help as I need to make a decision by this weekend......
sod it mate go on your jack and take the chance. Bad side of taking ex is if one of you meets someone else there the other isnt allowed to have a problem with it can you see that happening
You've already ruled out the 'ladies of the night' option so I'm assuming you're clearly quite mad. I shall have no further dealings with you or your problem.
Matty go on your own mate just imagine the scene you are in a bar chatting to some nice lady when along comes your ex.... Aghhhhhh nightmare sod her mate go and have fun
Thought I'd put a girls perspective on it.
I think you're all being quite mean to the ex.
I suggest take her. Saves hassle to find someone else, and you look like a really reasonable bloke. If she starts doing you head in, accidently wipe out into her near a very steep drop.....problem over!
the same thing happened to a friend of mine and he took his mate, he ended up having a ball with out her and it makes her think of what she is missing out on. If you want her back . . . . she will be dead jealous and will make up with u. if you dont want her back . . . . . then u will have a ball meeting loads of ladies and having a laugh ! u might even meet someone from home b4 you go !