thats fine Pete!
Ive been known to post the odd well intoxicated howler in me time! (years ago!) and had a few near knuckle exchanges of messages in my time!, rather near the flirting type! (even if it did get one hell of a post following!)_LOL!
My view was that you changed the word without deleting the post at that stage or blocking the account. Good yellow card approach and warning to us all. Blocking the account was the next stage (whether threatened or happened don't know) but it was after shouting at the ref.